1. It might feel kind to explain things to your child during challenging behavior is the kind thing to do, but please know that besides reinforcing challenging behavior, it typically just prolongs it. Your best bet is to stay calm and hold your boundary. 2. Think about the best boss you’ve ever had—someone you respected and wanted to work hard for. Now think about the worst. Chances are, you put in more effort for the one you actually liked. Parenting works the same way. Kids are more likely to